It’s your story and you deserve to keep it the way you want it to be remembered.
OBITME is designed to make sure no one can rewrite, erase, or distort your identity after you pass.
We work by giving your chosen Executor the documentation, clarity, and authority to make sure your truth is respected.
✔ Your Executor carries legal authority
✔ Funeral homes follow documented wishes
✔ Obituaries publish the FIRST submission
✔ Platform corrections are honored with proof
This means your identity is protected through documentation, timing, and authority; not guesswork.
Executor = Power
Lead Legally, your Executor controls:
• Your obituary
• Your funeral details
• Your memorial wording
• Your digital legacy
• How your identity is represented publicly
OBITME arms your Executor with all the documentation they need.
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✔ Your Executor carries legal authority
✔ Funeral homes follow documented wishes
✔ Obituaries publish the FIRST submission
✔ Platform corrections are honored with proof
This means your identity is protected through documentation, timing, and authority; not guesswork.
Funeral Homes Follow Written Instructions
Funeral directors are trained to respect:
• chosen names
• pronouns
• identity preferences
• written instructions
Your OBITME documentation makes your wishes clear and enforceable.
Your Obituary Is Protected by Being First
When your Executor submits YOUR obituary first:
• newspapers accept it
• revisions get rejected
• the first version becomes official
• Google + obituary sites pull the first one
Whoever speaks first defines the narrative.
OBITME Creates Documented Intent
OBITME produces:
✔ time-stamped records
✔ identity declarations
✔ chosen name + pronouns
✔ funeral instructions
✔ message logs
This becomes strong evidence if anyone challenges your identity.
Your Executor Can Correct Misgendering Online
With your OBITME documentation, your Executor can request:
• obituary corrections
• memorial page updates
• removal of deadnaming posts
• social media adjustments
Platforms DO comply when shown proof.
Your Messages Speak For You
Scheduled letters, videos, or posts sent after your passing protect:
• your intentional name
• your identity
• your truth
• your story
Your voice becomes impossible to erase.
What OBITME Cannot Do
OBITME is powerful, but not a legal will or court order.
It cannot force family members to behave.
But it DOES give your Executor everything they need to defend your truth.
That is real protection.
